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By Douglas Bower
I’ve been thinking more about this issue of Mexican Landlords and
Beggars. Just why do Mexicans think they can exploit a Gringo when they
see one coming down the pike? Now, is this true of all Mexicans without
exception? I do not know since I have not met nor had any experiences
with “all Mexicans without exception.” But it is beginning to look like
my expat innocence (stupid naivety) is getting a lesson in what it is
“really like” to live in Mexico.
I am the type of person who can
get along with “almost” anyone. I have had the philosophy that someone
is innocent until proven guilty (Oh, my! How naïve is that?). Even if I
hear the most vile rumors about someone, I generally regard them as
just that—rumors—until that person actually acts out those rumors in my
face. In other words, I always give someone the “benefit of the doubt”
until they prove to me otherwise.
It is beginning to appear to me
that there “is” a kind of anti-American sentiment here, only it is
subtle and unassuming. I have yet to witness personally or hear on the
news of any marches as were seen in Argentina the last time Bush was
there with locals chanting, “Yankee go home”. However, I do not exclude
the possibility of seeing that someday in Mexico.
How the
existing anti-American sentiment exists here is Americans are seen as
stupid, arrogant, imperialistic, and self-serving. (I do not entirely
disagree with that evaluation.) Witnessing some of the behaviors of
Americans in this country, I can see where the Mexicans get this idea.
However,
unfortunately, this seems to work itself out in the attitude “since
Americans are horrid behavioral monstrosities, we Mexicans can take
advantage of them and exploit them”—and exploit them they indeed do!
Mexicans
have traditionally seen that the type of Americans who expatriated here
were the rich. Mexicans understand class structure all too well. They
have had hundreds of years of practice of getting what they want and
need from the rich.
Traditionally, it was the “rich American” who
would come to Mexico, usually to the country’s west “Gold Coast”, and
buy up all the real estate. You can still see this in cities like
Puerto Vallarta. Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton, who lived in
Vallarta, were prime examples. These rich Americans would hire the
locals as servants. The servants, when they went home after work, would
tell family and friends of just how Americans lived—like movie stars!
They appeared, and were in most cases, fabulously wealthy and acted
like the spoiled children that they, in most cases, were. Thus the
stereotype was set!
The rich, upper class Americans became the
local servants’ “PATRONS”. They would, in many cases, pay their
servants the lowest possible wages but the locals accepted it because
the Americans provided for them in other ways. They paid for the
Mexican’s family members when they took ill, for the births of their
children, baptisms, deaths, etc. The rich Americans got by with
treating the locals badly and paying them poorly because, in the long
run, they would provide these extra services that benefited the
Mexicans. One rich upper-class American could not be outdone by their
rich upper-class neighbor, so they would keep up the Patron act so as
to conform. Again, Mexicans benefited.
What Mexicans never saw,
and had no experience with, is an American “middle-class”. It didn’t
exist then nor does it now exist in their culture. There was absolutely
no concept of an American that wasn’t Elizabeth Taylor/Richard Burton
rich. There was no concept of an American that could not, nor would
want to, become their Rich American Patron and take care of them and
all their family. There was no idea what an American middle-class would
look like, much less that one existed.
Mexicans with property to
sell or rent have been accustomed to rich, upper-class Americans who
would breeze into town and show a willingness to pay outrageous prices
for everything from housing to food. There developed, therefore, the
prices for “The Gringos” and the prices for “The Mexicans”.
My
wife and I have seen this over and over again here in Guanajuato. We
have experienced this with the landlords here. They see you coming and
all of a sudden the local property owner starts hearing, “Cha-ching,
cha-ching”! Dollar signs start floating before their eyes. The vendors
and services providers are the same way. Their culture evolved the idea
that anyone from America is so wealthy that they can afford to pay
higher prices for things than Mexicans could pay. And they take full
advantage of this.
If you are a Mexican trying to rent a house,
you will be told one price. If you are an American, be prepared to pay
through the nose.
It is, I believe, because Mexicans have no
concept of a middle-class, a class that is just now beginning to visit
and even move as expats to Mexico.
Our friends from northeastern
America were paying $700.00 for their mortgage. They moved to Mexico
and a landlord charged them $600.00 in rent for a studio apartment.
But, Bill and Jo were new to Guanajuato, the landlord knew it, and they
were stuck with an overly-inflated rental—BECAUSE THEY WERE GRINGOS!
Is this evil exploitation—You bet!
Is there a thing you can do about it? Nope!
So
does this mean that if you are a middle-class American wanting to
retiring to Mexico, and you cannot afford rich, upper-class prices, you
are doomed to this exploitation?—Pretty Much!
Unless…What you
need to do, that we are presently discovering, is apply the only
possible remedy for this “Oh here come the filthy rich Americans for us
to gouge” mentality.
1. First, realize if you have no contacts
here, you will be at the mercy of this exploitation. There is nothing
you can do about it. It will happen. Be prepared. Get over it. It is
going to happen.
2. When moving here, sign a lease for only 6 months at a time.
3.
During your 6-month lease, while in the clutches of Mexican landlords
who regard you as a money-bag to be exploited and drained dry, start
making contacts.
What I mean is that it appears the more
important people you know, and make that fact known to potential
landlords, the less likely you are going to get bamboozled and
hoodwinked.
In other words, if you make friends with someone in
the community who is influential, and drop that name in front of a
would-be evil-doing, exploiting Mexican landlord, the less likely you
are going to get taken. Someone of great influence has to the capacity
to ruin your reputation and shut you down. Exploitive Mexican landlords
know this. They will be less likely to take you for all you’re worth if
they know you can tell someone of influence what the evil landlord did
to you.
Take advantage of this and use this tactic liberally!
Once
you have established yourself and made these contacts, then you will be
in a better position to protect yourself from the would-be exploiters.
The beggars, the panhandlers, however, will still regard you are
someone to lie to in order to get money. What to do about that?
Beats the heck out of me!
Freelance writer, Syndicated Columnist, and book author, Doug Bower, has written a compelling new book titled, AMERICA'S ANTI-MEXICAN XENOPHOBIA.
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